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*Social Distancing; Episode 7 – Performance Review

Once quarantine is over, most people have sex at the top of their list. What happens when that Sex is not everything you dreamed of while quarantining? How do you communicate what you really want? listen and enjoy…

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  1. Hey Ms. P! Thanks for an awesome episode and very interesting topic. I think a lot of people could definitely relate. I do want to add though that I think unless we’re in position where we are willing to teach someone how to be better, we should keep our opinions and feedback to ourselves. Telling a sexual partner to go watch porn….I think greatly contradicts the statement about all women being different in how our body reacts. He/she needs to know what to do for you and who better to teach than you, the person unsatisfied. I think Wole made am excellent point when he mentioned, “its not what you say, its how you say it” and I absolutely love when you mentioned the fact that you wait a week before you offer feedback as well.
    When deciding to give feedback it is definitely situational, I think your other friend alluded to this when she mentioned her experiences and suggested that she handles each situation based on the relationship she has with the person.

    • Tomi Popoola For Ms P Speaks Tomi Popoola For Ms P Speaks

      Thanks for listening and the feedback.

  2. Super funny and interesting. Wale was holding the male perspective down. Great points about timing, and wording sensitivity.

    I don’t see anything wrong with having your partner watch more porn. You will be surprised what things turn you on, and you weren’t aware because you never ventured out there. You can share those fantasies(if they’re not too out there, making you too embarrassed ) with your partner and create a whole new sexual experience.

    • Tomi Popoola For Ms P Speaks Tomi Popoola For Ms P Speaks

      Thanks for listening and the comment. I’m all for watching porn to see what “the kids are doing these days” lol

    • I’m all for porn especially if its together but if a guy is asking for feedback about our experience and genuinely trying to be better and pick my brain about what I like…telling him to go watch porn or read a book wouldn’t be appropriate I don’t think.

  3. Mifa Mifa

    This shit was funny as hell. Kelechi ghosting is so on brand for some ladies. No time at all. Wale did hold the forte for mem Sha.

    The part wey off me na when Wale called someone “Party Starter”! Lmao.

    • Tomi Popoola For Ms P Speaks Tomi Popoola For Ms P Speaks

      Lol. He said party rider. That was funny! Glad you enjoyed it. Thanks for listening

  4. @Retiredcaptainblack @Retiredcaptainblack

    Babes u n your friends did a great job. It was very organic and interesting and cant wait for the the next podcast.

    Yours Truely,
    No 1 fan.

    • Tomi Popoola For Ms P Speaks Tomi Popoola For Ms P Speaks

      Awwwn… thank you for listening and the feedback ❤️

  5. Amanda Amanda

    This is a side of your podcast i’m glad you put out. witty and super relatable. I have been in a situation where feedback did not just work. I was not doing it for him and he was not doing it for me. This is where compatibility stands. that is way more important than feedback. I will like for you to discuss.

    not to take anything away from you solo, you do great with guests. you do not overtake the show, it is just a chat that people can engage in. good job Ms P

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